A Life Well-Lived: The Remarkable Journey of Mrs. Ann Agresti

In the heart of Bermuda Village, a vibrant, 102-year-old resident, Mrs. Ann Agresti, continues to inspire those around her. Born in Albany, NY, as the fourth of five children, she grew up in a tight-knit family during the Great Depression. Her father worked for the New York Central Railroad, while her mother maintained the household. Despite the hardships of the era, she recalls a childhood filled with simple joys—playing outdoors, picking buttercups in the woods, and spending countless hours at the library, indulging in her love for reading.
Mrs. Agresti continued her studies after college and received her Master's from Hofstra University as well as a sixth year diploma from New York University. Graduating from college in the 1940s, she embarked on a career as a teacher and later became the principal of an elementary school with more than 1,200 students. Teaching was her lifelong dream, and she fondly remembers the camaraderie among her fellow educators. She began her career in Long Island, living in an apartment with other women who were teachers. She loved that time with her friends, enjoying the single life, and engaging in her passion of teaching. However, she sympathizes with today’s teachers, who face increasing challenges and diminishing support.
Mrs. Agresti’s life took a serendipitous turn when she met her husband on a double date—though he was originally there with someone else. Their love story blossomed, leading to the birth of twins.
Reflecting on her favorite decade, the 1940s stand out as a time of safe travel as a young woman, patriotism, and strong community ties. The biggest change she has witnessed over her lifetime is how much the world has expanded. In her youth, even attending kindergarten was a significant event, as most activities revolved around the home and family. Now, with the prevalence of television, cars, and computers, society’s focus has shifted outward.
Mrs. Agresti enjoyed sports. She played tennis almost daily and frequently played golf with her husband. She retired at age 60 and her her journey to Bermuda Village Retirement Resort began when a friend raved about its grand opening event for active retirees. Intrigued, she visited and was captivated by the resort-like atmosphere and bustling social scene. She officially moved in 1989 and has never looked back. Over the years, she has been an integral part of the Bermuda Village and Bermuda Run Country Club communities. She was elected to the Board of Directors for the Bermuda Run Homeowners Association for two-terms, was an active member on the 9-hole Ladies Golf Association, and served on the Bermuda Run Country Club Board of Governors for several years.
World travel has been a significant part of her life, often embarking on cruises with a close friend who was a travel agent. One of her favorite adventures was a journey through the Greek Islands on a small cruise ship, an experience she cherishes to this day. Closer to home, she is an avid bridge player, at times engaging in competitive games in Winston-Salem, but mainly playing socially amongst friends. Initially hesitant, she eventually embraced teaching bridge at Bermuda Village, where her students continue to seek her guidance long after her planned four-month course ended! She stated that she would “always strive to give it my best effort”. She also enjoys playing rummikub and mahjong, keeping her mind sharp and engaged.
When asked about the secret to her longevity, Mrs. Agresti emphasizes the importance of “staying active—mentally, physically, spiritually, and socially”. Her greatest pride lies in the impact she has had on others. A recent moment of reflection came when her son posted a photo of her on Facebook, prompting an outpouring of heartfelt messages from former students and acquaintances who credited her with making a profound difference in their lives.
Mrs. Ann Agresti’s journey is a testament to resilience, passion, and the power of community. As she continues to thrive at Bermuda Village, her story serves as a reminder of the rich experiences and meaningful connections that shape a well-lived life.